Girls out there, read this, learn something from what you read, apply it to yourself, last but not least, spread this to all the ladies in the world:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.  ( “Nodz, Nodz” man will do anything for the one that he loves, he even can accepts all the girl’s negative sides, and nothing in this world can stops him from winning her heart.)

If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. (Stop making yourself sound so pathetic, some guys just do not deserve what you did for them. Girls, you still have to be cool, don’t give in too much to guys.)

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. ( This applies for the girls who love their boyfriend too much, stop saying your bf is good, which on the other hand, he actually does not deserve your compliments at all.)

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. ( However, I have to say it is quite hard, as sometime when a girl loves a guy so much, she doesn’t even bother what the future will holds and what consequences she has to face in the future as well, as long as she has the opportunity to be with someone she loves, she will definitely treasure that moment.)

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. (Never change yourself for a man, a man who truly loves you, will definitely accepts you for who you are.)

Slower is better. ( Don’t rush for a relationship, just go with the flow. Most importantly, save the best for the last.)

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. (Live your life to the fullest, but don’t live your life for a man.)

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.  ( When a guy dumps you, do not think too much, and think that you are actually the one who ruin the relationship. Absolutely wrong, guys always have too much excuses when they want to get out of the relationship, let them be. For my case, I never believe that “friendship” will still exist after break up, on the other hand, it’s a win-win situation, which both of us agree to break with each other. For my previous one, I don’t really give a damn about him anymore, cox when we broke up, it was already like a WW3 hahaha.)

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. (Anyway, I don’t really like it, on top of that, a guy that I don’t really like as well.)

 Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. ( When a relationship is broken, let it be, don’t ever try to make an effort to fix it back again, somehow, there’s still a scar on the relationship, no point of putting so much effort to fix it back. Eg>> Once some thing is broken, you will never can try to fix it back, somehow, you will still can see the mark, it’s better to throw it, and buy a new one, even though it can never replace the old ones.)

The only person you can control in a relationship is you. ( Never let a relationship controls you, and don’t ever control a man or let a man controls you. Be fair and compromise with each other.)

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? ( I am not married, however, my mum did teach me about this as well, when a man goes out and having different kind of women with him, he will not going to treat you differently as well.)

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. ( Don’t always cling onto him, have you some private time with your other friends, and don’t let him know all about your friends.)

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. ( Keep some dignity and pride for yourself.)

If something bothers you, speak up. ( Do not always bow down to a man, we have the right to speak up for ourselves.)

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. ( Especially having your own bank account, that’s what my mum taught me. Never let a man knows how much you actually owned, they can just ask as much money as they want from you.)

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. ( This applies for us girls as well, accept your man for who he is.)

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job.  (Somehow, he will take advantages of you, so girls, you gotta learn this.)

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. ( Somehow, ladies, you still need to let your man feels like a man, or else, he will feel that himself as a loser.)

Never let a man define who you are. ( If he defines you in a good way, then let it be…)

Never borrow someone else’s man. (Put yourself in other people’s shoes, how would you feel if someone borrow your man??? Will you feel happy about it?)

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. ( Errrmmm, I got no comment for this -_-”)

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. ( Don’t let a man treat you which you are not deserve to be treated.)

All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street.. ( Settle most of things by compromising, it’s important.)

You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. ( Never find a substitute after a break-up, it will only added more pain to your wound, on the other hand, you are cheating on other people’s feeling.)

 You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary. ( Find someone who actually can make you feel the “WHOLE” you.)

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. (Even though dating is fun, but never treated dating as a game.)

Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. ( Makes a man feel anxious of where you are, do not always pick up his call, wait for about 2 or 3 times when he calls you, which actually shows that he really anxious about you. If he only make an effort to call you once, that’s it, he doesn’t even bother about you anymore.)

 Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. ( Never ever commit to a man…NEVER…)

Keep him in your radar but get to know others. ( We, girls, still have the right to go out and socialize with others, even a car there is always a spare tyre, so go out and socialize more, you will have the opportunity to meet more people, in case you got dump, you still have the opportunity to meet other guys who are much better than your previous guy.)

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. ( I can only say it is definitely hard to forget someone whom you used to love before, especially, when you really love him so much, you will never have the chance to forget him in your entire lifetime.)

 BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT…………